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In consideration of recent events, I have though quite hard about a lot of things in recent weeks about certain things happening in the past. As a result, I came to the conclusion that I am going to rewatch people I have formerly blocked due to personal issues with a friend of mine, as I had to bear a lot of doubt with those decisions every time when I had to do it to someone I call a friend. It is a grave mistake of mine to then simply discard them, because things went south somewhere, if I called them friend at one point and they did not personally wrong me in any way or form. Hence, today I have decided to watch people with whom I talked a lot and apologized for my own lack of loyalty towards them. I decided that to keep true to my own ideals of peaceful resolutions, temperance, and kindness, there is a different path I have to walk. One closer to my ideals, the ideals I learned about by my mother and during my time as a Christian. I was told to treat others as I wish to be treated myself. And I have failed this a many times. It tears me apart when I have to pick sides between friends, and thus become a traitor to one side. The reasonable solution to this is quite simple however. Unless I took issue with a person's action myself (unless they redeem themselves, as I believe people are capable to, if they try), I will have no more issues with watching them and will do so and remain doing so.
I do hope and ask for this decision to be respected. It is what I deem as the right thing to do.
I do hope and ask for this decision to be respected. It is what I deem as the right thing to do.
Holiday Art Raffly by ManlyKaz
As a little extra for the end of this year, my friend ~ManlyKaz (https://www.deviantart.com/manlykaz) has opened up an art raffle to participate and being into lottery, I am quite certainly hoping to catch some interest for him. :3
So then, who wants to participate and maybe give him a watch on his dA, FA and Twitter?
The Raffle can be found here:
Edit:
Here an example of his art, so you have an idea of what you could get. ;)
Talking about things
About two years ago, I made the journal of me leaving behind a certain group of people on DeviantArt, led by an individual who as I look back on it now... has no deserving of any mercy nor forgiveness I am usually willing to give. And in regards to this, I wanted to share a journal bringing a lot of light to the situation. While I do not condone the practice of naming and shaming, in this regard it is a dire need to create awareness:
As for other things, I admit to have been silent ever since my grandfather's death last year. Even before to be honest. Life has been a bit exhausting on my end and I have tried to stem my real life a bit with a
Friends in Need of Support
Alright, despite a lack of recent activity, I am currently seeing that two people I know are struggling with things and could certainly use some aid in their endeavors.
First off, we have :icon-Colonel-Motivation:, who due to some stupid incident needs money to come by. More on that in his journal:
Since Colonel drew most of the commissions I got in my gallery, I want to say that all in all there is certainly a lot of reasons for you to look into it, as I can certainly assure he can do excellent artworks:
Second, I got :iconmimmimeart:, who similarly has opened up emergency commissions. She is currently on a look for a better job and thus
An Update
Okay, I must admit, I have been hardly very active as of late. Things have been rather stressful snd busy and not gotten better ever since the beginning of the year. Recently my grandfather got severely sick and died and just last Saturday I was on his funeral. Things are quite frankly quite bleak as it is a huge change for everyone who was close to him. My grandmother has been hit the worst understandably. And well, furthermore, there are other issues as well, which have drained me of time and energy. Things should normalize, yet I cannot say when that would be. Things have gradually gotten more difficult.
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Ich kenne zwar die Umstände kein Bisschen, deshalb kann ich nur generelle Aussagen treffen. Ja, eine Freundschaft über Bande und Verpflichtungen zu beenden ist tricky, da man die Umstände selten so genau nachvollziehen kann. Allerdings habe ich den Anlass, dass sich Freunde von mir gegenseitig(oder Freunde von mir mit Dritten) in die Haare bekommen haben immer(seit ich klar genug denken kann dafür) genutzt um beide Seiten zu sprechen. Im Bestfall kann man die Sache klären, in Normalfall aber immer noch eine der beiden Seiten als klar falsch liegende identifizieren. Damit ist dann meine Entscheidung, wie ich mit der Loyalitätsfrage umgehe, immer eher einfach.
Ich habe allerdings auch schon den Anlass, dass Freunde von mir eine nicht tollerierbare Seite von sich gezeigt haben genutzt um mich von diesen Leuten zu trennen. Andernfalls dauern solche Prozesse nur deutlich länger und sich deutlich hässlicher. Menschen verändern sich eben. Manchmal kann man ihnen die notwendige Referenz zur Realität sein, manchmal verweigern sie sich. Kismet.
Hoffe du fährst gut mit deinem Weg^^
Ich habe allerdings auch schon den Anlass, dass Freunde von mir eine nicht tollerierbare Seite von sich gezeigt haben genutzt um mich von diesen Leuten zu trennen. Andernfalls dauern solche Prozesse nur deutlich länger und sich deutlich hässlicher. Menschen verändern sich eben. Manchmal kann man ihnen die notwendige Referenz zur Realität sein, manchmal verweigern sie sich. Kismet.
Hoffe du fährst gut mit deinem Weg^^